Connecting with Women at Weddings

Learn how to approach women on public trains with confidence and ease. Our tool and guide provide you with interesting things to say when starting a conversation and good questions to ask to keep it going on top of a complete guide.

"(Holding a drink) This [drink] is fantastic! Have you tried it, or do you have another favorite from the bar?"

A light and social comment about the refreshments. This can easily lead to a chat about drinks, food, or general enjoyment.

"I'm trying to decide what to try from the [buffet/dessert table] next. Anything you'd highly recommend?"

A low-pressure way to ask for her opinion and show you value her input. It naturally leads to discussion about the food.

"I'm [Groom's Name]'s [friend/cousin/etc.]. How do you know [Bride's Name/Groom's Name]?"

Clearly stating your connection to the wedding. This helps establish trust and provides a natural segue into how she knows the couple.

"(Smiling as someone does something funny) Did you just see that? That was [hilarious/amazing]!"

Reacting to a shared, amusing moment. This creates an instant, lighthearted bond and gives you something enjoyable to talk about.

"I love this [song/band]! Have you heard them play before, or is this your first time experiencing them?"

Leveraging the shared experience of the music. It's a low-pressure way to find common ground and discuss tastes.

"That was a really sweet ceremony. How do you know the [bride/groom]?"

Directly referencing the recent ceremony and asking about her connection to the couple. This is a natural and expected question at a wedding.

"This is such a beautiful wedding, isn't it? What's your favorite part so far – the [music], the [food], or the [decorations]?"

Using the overall positive atmosphere of the wedding as an opening. It's safe and invites her to share her experience.

"I haven't been to a wedding quite like this one before. What's your favorite part about [weddings in general/this specific wedding]?"

Invites her to share her perspective and experiences. This can provide insights into her personality and interests.

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