How to Talk to Girls on the Train
#2 Conversation Options
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"You look like you're heading somewhere [interesting/exciting]. Are you on your way to [work/vacation]?"
Make an educated guess about her destination or purpose. It's a bit of a risk, but can open up discussion about travel or plans.
"What train line did you take before you started coming here?"
People tend to switch train lines or routes once in a while. Talk about other routes she's taken.
"When do you usually take this train? (I see you often. I see you for the first time)"
General small talk. Low risk. Lets her talk to find out what is important to her about her commute or travel.
"I like your [headphones/bag]. Where did you get them?"
General small talk. Low risk. See what she talks about and go with it.
"How do you like this train [line/carriage]? (I love how [quiet/convenient] it is.)"
General small talk. Not risky at all. See what she talks about and what is important to her regarding the train experience.
"You're quite [prepared/organized] for this journey. Do you travel a lot for [work/leisure]?"
Compliment on her preparedness. Opens the door to discussing travel habits or work.
"Do you usually get a good signal on this route, or do you just have good luck with [your carrier/your device]? (compliment)"
A kind of flirty compliment on her tech or a relatable train problem. See how she reacts.
"That's an interesting [book/magazine] you're reading. What's it about?"
General small talk. No risk. See how she reacts to the topic and continue.
"Do you work around here? Or do you just travel a lot?"
Talk about the fact that she's on the train. Soft compliment. Slightly risky.
"How long have you been taking this train?"
General train small talk. Low risk. See what she talks about and go with it.
"This train is pretty [smooth/bumpy] today, isn't it? Is it always like this at this time?"
Basic small talk specific to the situation on the train. Talk about something currently going on in the environment.
"How can you stay so [focused/relaxed] on this journey? Did you have a lot of [coffee/sleep] today?"
Soft compliment. Make some small talk and see how actively she responds.