How to Talk to Women on the Bus
#17 Conversation Options
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"You are [incredibly attractive/captivating]. Do you always make such an impression?"
An extremely direct, overtly flirty compliment. This is the highest risk and should only be attempted if you are certain she is very interested and receptive and the conversation is already highly engaging.
"This bus ride always seems to take forever to get through [that one intersection], doesn't it?"
A relatable comment about a shared, minor frustration. It invites commiseration and can lead to a brief chat about the efficiency of public transport.
"I noticed you were [reading a newspaper/looking at a map]. Are you [new to the city/planning a trip]?"
A specific observation about her current activity. It creates a natural bridge to ask about her plans or background.
"Are you heading to [a specific event/landmark] today, or just [exploring]?"
A polite inquiry about her destination or plans. It's open-ended and gives her room to share as much or as little as she'd like.
"Looks like you're having a [good/busy] day. Anything [exciting] happening?"
A general, friendly check-in that's open to interpretation. It's warm and inviting, letting her steer the conversation.
"Are you always this [calm/composed] in the mornings? I'm usually a wreck."
A complimentary observation combined with self-deprecating humor. It invites her to share her morning routine or temperament.
"You have a really [nice smile/great laugh]. Are you always this [positive/upbeat]?"
A direct, slightly flirty compliment. It's higher risk but can be very effective if delivered sincerely and she's receptive. Gauge her initial reactions carefully.
"What's the one thing you always notice when you're riding the bus?"
A unique question about her observations. It can lead to a deeper insight into her perspective and awareness.
"That's a [great looking coffee/interesting snack]. Did you grab it nearby?"
A lighthearted observation about something she's consuming. It's a non-intrusive way to open a discussion about local cafes, food, or preferences.
"Do you think it's better to [walk/take the bus] for short distances?"
A casual opinion-based question about local travel. It invites a simple discussion about convenience or exercise.
"What's the [best/worst] thing about taking the bus, in your opinion?"
A slightly more engaging question about a shared experience. It invites her to offer an opinion and can lead to a more personal discussion about commuting.
"That's a [cute/friendly] looking [dog/cat] in that [carrier/photo]. Is it yours?"
A specific observation if she has a visible pet carrier or is looking at pet photos. It's a universally appealing topic for many people.