How to Talk to Girls at Work
#2 Conversation Options
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"This [project/report] is keeping me busy! What are you working on these days?"
Sharing a bit about your workload and then inviting her to share about hers, in a professional context.
"How long have you been working in [this department/this industry]?"
A common, professional question that allows her to share about her experience and career path.
"I'm looking for a good place to grab [lunch/coffee] around here. Do you have any recommendations?"
Asking for local recommendations, opening a conversation about shared local experiences.
"How was your [weekend/holiday]? Get up to anything interesting?"
General small talk about non-work life, polite and common in a work environment.
"I'm grabbing a [coffee/tea]. Can I get you anything?"
A polite and helpful offer, creating a brief, low-pressure interaction.
"I really enjoyed your [presentation/report] on [topic]. It was very [clear/insightful]."
A direct and specific compliment on her work, showing you pay attention and value her contributions.
"That's a nice [pen/notebook/desk accessory]. Where did you find it?"
A low-risk compliment on a visible personal item at her workspace, leading to a light, friendly exchange.
"That was a really interesting point you made in the meeting about [topic]. Could you tell me a bit more about [specific aspect]?"
Showing genuine interest in her professional contributions and asking for more details.
"I'm trying to figure out the best way to approach [a common work challenge]. Do you have any insights?"
Asking for her professional opinion or advice, showing respect for her expertise.
"I saw your email about [company event/department initiative]. Are you planning on attending/getting involved?"
Referring to a general company announcement or event to open a discussion about shared activities.
"How are you finding the new [software/policy/project]? I’m still getting the hang of it."
Discussing a shared work-related experience, inviting her input and creating common ground.
"Did you hear about [recent company news/industry development]? What are your thoughts on it?"
Bringing up relevant, current events in the workplace or industry to spark a professional discussion.