How to Talk to a Stranger
#2 Conversation Options
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"I'm new to this area/activity. Any tips or advice for a beginner?"
Shows humility and asks for guidance, which can be flattering.
"It looks like you're [working on something/doing something interesting]. What is it?"
A direct, but polite, inquiry about their current activity, demonstrating curiosity.
"I'm looking for a good [restaurant/store/activity] around here. Do you have any favorites?"
Requests a local recommendation, implying trust in their knowledge.
"This place has such a nice [vibe/decor/view]. Have you been here before?"
Comments on the surroundings and asks about their familiarity, potentially revealing shared experiences.
"Excuse me, do you know if [this place] has [a specific item/service]? I can't seem to find it."
A low-stakes question that can lead to a brief interaction and potentially more.
"This [coffee/food/event] is really [good/interesting]. Have you tried it?"
A common ground observation that can lead to shared opinions and recommendations.
"Wow, this [weather/atmosphere/situation] is really something, isn't it?"
A safe, universal observation about the immediate environment.
"I love your [bag/coat/accessory]. Where did you find it?"
A sincere compliment on something they chose to wear, showing appreciation for their style.
"I couldn't help but notice your [unique item, e.g., camera/sketchbook/instrument]. Do you [use it often/have a passion for it]?"
Identifies a specific interest and invites them to share about it.
"That's a really interesting [book/podcast/song] you're [reading/listening to]. What do you like about it?"
Shows genuine interest in their activity and opens a door to discuss shared interests.
"I'm trying to decide between [two options, e.g., these two flavors/routes]. Any recommendations?"
Asks for their opinion, showing you value their input.
"That's a beautiful [drawing/sculpture/piece of art]. Are you an artist?"
A specific compliment leading to a potential discussion about their creative pursuits.