How to Talk to Men
#5 Conversation Options
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"Do you listen to [music genre] when you work out? I'm always looking for new playlists."
A question about his gym routine that can lead to a discussion about music tastes.
"Do you use any fitness apps or trackers? I'm trying to find one that works for me."
A practical question about technology in the gym, leading to recommendations or shared tech interests.
"Have you ever tried [a specific workout class/type of training] here? I'm curious about it."
Asks for his experience with other gym offerings, potentially leading to shared activities.
"I always feel so much better after a workout, even if it's a tough one. Do you agree?"
A relatable statement about the positive effects of exercise, inviting agreement and further discussion.
"Do you ever feel like you're the only one [doing a specific exercise/using a certain machine]?"
A relatable observation that can lead to a humorous or shared understanding of gym habits.
"What's the most challenging exercise you've ever tried?"
A question that invites him to share a personal story of struggle or triumph in the gym.
"It looks like you're doing a [specific type of training]. What do you enjoy most about it?"
Shows you're observing his workout and are interested in his preferences.
"I need some serious motivation today. What's your secret to pushing through a tough workout?"
A slightly vulnerable question that invites him to offer advice and connect on a deeper level.
"This gym is great, but sometimes I wish they had [a specific piece of equipment/better music]. What are your thoughts?"
Invites him to share his opinion on the gym's amenities, creating a shared critique or appreciation.
"What's your biggest pet peeve at the gym?"
A lighthearted way to vent about common gym frustrations and find shared humor.
"I'm training for [a race/event]. Are you working towards any fitness goals?"
Shares your own fitness journey and invites him to share his.
"Do you mix up your workouts a lot, or do you stick to a routine?"
Asks about his training philosophy, revealing more about his approach to fitness.