How to Talk to Men
#2 Conversation Options
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"What's the most [interesting/funniest/challenging] thing you've done recently?"
An open-ended question that encourages him to share something personal and engaging.
"So, besides [what we've been talking about], what else do you enjoy doing?"
Broadens the conversation to discover more about his interests and hobbies.
"If you could [travel anywhere/learn any skill/meet anyone], what would it be?"
A fun, hypothetical question that can reveal a lot about his aspirations and interests.
"You know, that reminds me of [a brief, related personal anecdote/experience]. Have you ever [experienced something similar]?"
Shares a personal connection and invites him to share his own experiences, creating common ground.
"You seem to have a really [good/positive/calm] energy. Is there something that keeps you so [positive/calm]?"
A direct, but gentle, compliment on his demeanor, inviting him to share a personal philosophy or habit.
"I noticed you were [doing something specific, e.g., sketching, looking at a map]. Is that a [hobby/interest] of yours?"
Shows you're observant and genuinely curious about his activities.
"That's a fascinating [opinion/point of view]. What led you to think that?"
Shows you're listening and are interested in the reasoning behind his thoughts, encouraging deeper conversation.
"I was just thinking about [a related topic to what he mentioned]. What are your thoughts on [specific aspect]?"
Builds on a previous point, showing you were listening and are engaged in the conversation.
"What's something you're really passionate about?"
A direct question that invites him to talk about what truly excites him.
"I'm trying to decide if [this place/event] is [worth it/good]. Have you been here before/What do you think?"
Asks for his opinion or experience, valuing his perspective and creating a reason for him to share.
"That's a really [interesting/cool/unique] [item he has/accessory he's wearing]. Where did you find it?"
This shows genuine interest in something he's chosen, allowing him to share a story or his taste.
"I'm always looking for good [book/movie/restaurant] recommendations. Any hidden gems you've discovered lately?"
Asks for his recommendations, indicating trust in his taste and opening up new topics.