How to Talk to Men while Shopping
#2 Conversation Options
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"Excuse me, do you know where I can find the [best [coffee beans]] in this store? I'm trying to find something [new] to try."
General small talk. Asking for help or recommendations is a low-risk way to start a conversation and shows you value their opinion.
"I'm trying to decide between these two [types of [milk]]. Which one do you think is better for [oatmeal]?"
Asking for a specific opinion on a product you're considering shows you're engaged and gives him a clear opportunity to share his knowledge or preference.
"(Struggling slightly to lift a heavy item or reach a high shelf) Oh, this is heavier than it looks! Do you mind giving me a quick hand with this [bag of [dog food]]?"
A lighthearted admission of a minor struggle and asking for help can be a charming way to initiate contact.
"Is this [checkout lane] usually this fast? I feel like I always pick the slow one."
A humorous comment about a common shopping frustration can break the ice and lead to a lighthearted exchange.
"You have great taste in [books]! Have you read anything by [this author]?"
Compliment his selection and follow up with a specific question related to the item, demonstrating genuine interest.
"I can never resist the [smell of freshly baked [bread]] in here. What's your favorite thing to buy at the bakery?"
Engage his senses and invite him to share a personal preference or favorite treat.
"I love your [t-shirt]. Is that from [that new place down the street]?"
A genuine compliment on something he's wearing can open a door, especially if you can connect it to a shared interest or a local spot.
"Excuse me, I'm looking for a [gift for my [brother]] and he's really into [gaming]. Do you have any recommendations?"
Asking for advice on a gift, especially for a male friend or family member, can be a great way to tap into his interests without direct flirty intent initially.
"Wow, this [line] is crazy, isn't it? Are you finding everything you need today?"
Commenting on a shared, relatable situation like a long line or a busy store can easily lead to a natural conversation.
"That's a really cool [gadget] you're looking at. Have you used one of those before? I've been thinking about getting a [new one]."
Comment on something he's looking at, especially if it's an item you're genuinely interested in or could use yourself.
"This [store] always has the best [selection of [craft beer]]. Have you found any hidden gems here?"
Share a positive observation about the store and invite him to share his own experiences or favorites.
"Excuse me, I'm trying to find [the [pasta aisle]]. Do you happen to know which way it is?"
A simple, direct request for directions is a low-pressure way to start.