How to Talk to Men on the Bus
#2 Conversation Options
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"So, besides riding the bus, what do you usually do on a [weekday/weekend] like this?"
A gentle way to ask about his routine or hobbies without being too intrusive. It opens the door for him to share more about himself.
"I love [that type of music/genre of books]. Do you have any recommendations?"
If you've discovered a shared interest (from his headphones, book, etc.), this is a fantastic way to deepen the conversation and get his opinion.
"I'm trying to decide what to [eat for dinner/do this evening]. Any good suggestions around here?"
Asking for a recommendation is a low-pressure way to engage him and can lead to a discussion about local spots or shared interests in food/activities.
"It feels good to just [sit/relax] on the bus after a [long day/busy morning]. Do you agree?"
A relatable comment about a shared feeling. It invites agreement and can lead to a conversation about daily life.
"That's a really [cool/unique] [bag/accessory]. Is there a story behind it?"
Complimenting a personal item and asking for its story can reveal interesting details about his life, travels, or hobbies.
"It's always interesting to see all the different people on the bus. Do you ever [people-watch/wonder about their stories]?"
A more observational comment that invites him to share his own thoughts on human nature or city life.
"I'm planning to [visit a new place/try a new hobby] soon. Have you ever [been there/done that]?"
Sharing a future plan or interest can open up a conversation about travel, hobbies, and shared experiences.
"What's the most [interesting/funny] thing you've seen on this bus route?"
A playful question that encourages him to share an anecdote, making the conversation more entertaining.
"What do you usually do to [unwind/relax] after a long day?"
Asks about his self-care or leisure activities, which can reveal his hobbies and interests.
"You seem to know your way around this area. Are you from around here originally?"
A natural follow-up if he's given directions or shown knowledge of the area. It invites him to share a bit about his background.
"This [bus route/area] always reminds me of [something specific]. Does it do that for you?"
Sharing a personal, light observation about the surroundings can invite him to share his own thoughts or memories.
"That [book/movie/game] you mentioned sounds really interesting. What's it about?"
Building on a previous point of conversation shows you were listening and are genuinely interested. It gives him a clear topic to elaborate on.