How to Talk to Men at Weddings
#2 Conversation Options
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"So, how do you know the [bride/groom]?"
A classic wedding question that immediately establishes a connection point. It's low-risk and usually leads to a story or shared acquaintance.
"I'm trying to guess people's connections to the couple. Are you a [childhood friend/college buddy/family member]?"
A playful and engaging way to find out his relationship to the couple. It shows curiosity and a bit of a guessing game element.
"Do you know if they're planning on [doing the garter toss/cutting the cake/first dance] soon?"
A practical question about the wedding timeline. It can lead to a discussion about wedding traditions or what's coming next.
"I'm so glad [bride/groom] found someone like [other partner]. They seem so happy together, don't they?"
Focuses on the positive outcome of the wedding, which is a universally shared sentiment. It allows for agreement and shared joy.
"The [food/band/decorations] are amazing! What's been your favorite part of the wedding so far?"
Another excellent option that focuses on shared positive experiences. It gives him an opportunity to express his preferences and share a moment of enjoyment.
"I can't believe how [warm/cold/beautiful] it is today for a wedding. Are you from around here?"
A situational comment combined with a personal question. It shows you're observant and opens up a geographical connection.
"This wedding is so much fun! Are you a big fan of weddings in general?"
Expresses your enjoyment and asks about his general feelings, which can lead to a broader conversation about weddings, traditions, or personal experiences.
"Are you more of a [cake/cupcake/dessert bar] person? (gesturing to the dessert table)"
A lighthearted and fun question that relates to the immediate environment. It's an easy way to find a common preference or a playful difference.
"This [venue] is beautiful, isn't it? Have you been to a wedding here before?"
A safe and easy way to talk about the current surroundings, which are inherently positive at a wedding. It opens the door for him to share his experiences.
"That's a great [song/dance move]! Are you a big dancer?"
If music is playing or people are dancing, commenting on it is a natural segway into talking about his interests or participation.
"I'm [bride's friend/groom's cousin]. How do you know [them]?"
Provides context about your own connection, making it easier for him to share his. It shows you're open and friendly.
"I love your [tie/pocket square/cufflinks]! It really [completes your outfit/adds a nice touch]."
A direct compliment on his attire. Men often appreciate specific compliments, especially when they've put thought into their appearance. Keep it genuine.