How to Talk to Men at University
#2 Conversation Options
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"I like your [t-shirt/hoodie]. Are you a fan of [the band/team/university department] too?"
Similar to complimenting an accessory, this focuses on something he's wearing that signifies an interest. It's an easy way to find common ground.
"I'm trying to find [a specific building/office]. Do you know how to get there?"
A practical question that requires his help, making him feel useful. It provides a natural reason for a brief interaction.
"Do you know if [professor's name] usually [arrives early/gives pop quizzes]?"
A simple, practical question related to a shared class or professor. It's direct and requires a factual answer, which can then be expanded upon.
"Hey, is this [building/classroom] usually this busy?"
A low-risk, situational observation that invites a simple reply and opens the door for further conversation about the university environment.
"I'm struggling with [a specific assignment/concept] in [class name]. Have you started on it yet?"
A direct, academic icebreaker that can lead to collaboration or a discussion about the course material. This is a very natural way to connect at university.
"I'm new to [this course/campus]. Any tips for navigating [the workload/the best study spots]?"
Positions you as someone seeking genuine advice, making him feel helpful and knowledgeable. This creates an immediate shared context.
"This [library/study spot] is great for [focusing/group work]. Do you come here often?"
A comment about the shared environment that invites him to share his habits or preferences. It can lead to discussing favorite study spots.
"What's your [major/minor]?"
A fundamental question at university. It's straightforward and opens up a discussion about academic paths and interests.
"Wow, this [line for coffee/printer] is long today! Does it usually get this crazy?"
A relatable, lighthearted comment about a common university experience. It's easy to agree with and can lead to a discussion about campus life.
"Nice [backpack/laptop sticker]. Is that from [a specific band/game/destination]?"
A specific compliment on something he's chosen to display, indicating a potential shared interest. It shows you've noticed something about him without being overly personal.
"I overheard you talking about [a specific topic/event]. That sounds really [interesting/challenging]!"
Shows you're observant and genuinely interested in what he's passionate about. Be careful not to sound like you were eavesdropping intentionally.
"Are you also dreading the [upcoming exam/group project] in [class name]?"
A shared struggle creates instant camaraderie. It's a lighthearted way to acknowledge the challenges of university life.