How to Talk to Children
#2 Conversation Options
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"What do you like to do for fun when you're not [at school/here]?"
Inquire about their hobbies and leisure activities.
"I noticed you're really good at [sport/activity]. How long have you been [playing/doing that]?"
Compliment a visible skill and ask about their experience. Positive and encouraging.
"What's the most exciting thing you've learned in school recently?"
Shows interest in their academic life without being too intrusive. Keep it general.
"That [outfit/backpack/toy] is really neat! Where did you get it?"
Compliment something they own and ask for details. Preteens often take pride in their possessions.
"Do you have any [pets]? What kind are they?"
Many kids love to talk about their pets.
"Wow, that looks like a tricky [puzzle/game level]! What's your strategy for beating it?"
Acknowledge their challenge and ask about their approach. Shows respect for their problem-solving skills.
"That's a really cool [drawing/model/game] you're working on! What inspired you to make it?"
Show genuine interest in their creative pursuits or current activity. This is highly engaging and low risk.
"That's a great [book/comic book]! What's your favorite part about it so far?"
Engage with what they're reading. Shows you pay attention and value their interests.
"If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?"
A classic, fun, and imaginative question that encourages creative thinking and sharing.
"If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and what would you do there?"
Encourages imagination and reveals their interests.
"What's something new you've tried lately?"
Promotes sharing about experiences and new ventures.
"What's your favorite [animal/video game character/movie]?"
Simple, open-ended questions about their preferences can spark conversation.