How to Talk to Boys at School
#4 Conversation Options
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"What's your favorite season and why?"
A simple, pleasant question that can lead to talking about activities and preferences related to different times of year.
"What's your dream job?"
Asking about future aspirations can give insight into his ambitions and values.
"What's one thing you're really passionate about?"
A broad question that encourages him to talk about something meaningful to him, allowing you to learn more.
"Are you a morning person or a night owl?"
A lighthearted question about daily habits that can lead to funny or relatable anecdotes.
"Do you have any hidden talents?"
A playful question that can lead to surprising and interesting revelations.
"Do you like to cook? What's your favorite thing to make?"
A question about domestic skills can be surprising and lead to interesting personal details.
"Have you always lived in [this town/city]?"
More direct than asking if he's from around here, but still a low-risk way to learn about his roots.
"Do you play any instruments?"
Asking about musical talents can reveal a creative side and lead to discussions about music.
"If you could meet anyone, dead or alive, who would it be?"
A thought-provoking question that can reveal his inspirations and interests.
"What's the hardest part about being a [student/teenager] these days?"
A slightly deeper question that can invite him to share challenges and frustrations, building connection.
"What's your go-to snack at school?"
A trivial but relatable question that can bring out a bit of personality and humor.
"I heard [band/artist] is coming to town. Are you a fan?"
Bringing up local events or popular culture can create a direct shared interest.