How to Talk to Boys at School
#2 Conversation Options
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"What are you planning to do after high school? Any exciting plans?"
This is a bigger question, but can lead to a deeper conversation about his aspirations and future.
"Are you going to the [school event/game] this [weekend/Friday]?"
Talking about upcoming social events creates a potential shared experience and an opportunity to meet up again.
"You're really good at [sport/subject/game]! How long have you been doing that?"
A genuine compliment on something he's skilled at. It shows you've noticed his abilities and gives him a chance to talk about his passion.
"What's your favorite thing about being at this school?"
A broad, positive question that allows him to talk about his experiences and interests within the school setting.
"You seem to know a lot about [topic]. Have you always been interested in that?"
Acknowledging his knowledge in a specific area can be flattering and open up a discussion about his hobbies.
"I saw you [playing basketball/at the club meeting]. How did that go?"
Showing you notice his activities outside of class is a good way to demonstrate interest in his life.
"That [teacher/class] is so [hard/interesting], right? What do you think of it?"
This is a low-risk way to connect over a shared, immediate experience. It invites him to share his opinion.
"I'm trying to decide what [elective/club] to join next year. Do you have any recommendations?"
Seeking his opinion on school choices can lead to a discussion about shared interests or new possibilities.
"Do you have any tips for [getting good at this subject/improving in this sport]?"
Asking for advice implies you value his knowledge and gives him a chance to share expertise.
"What's the funniest thing that's happened to you at school this year?"
A lighthearted question that encourages him to share an amusing anecdote, making the conversation fun.
"That [book/movie/song] you mentioned earlier sounds cool. What else are you into?"
Referring back to something he mentioned shows you were listening and want to learn more about his interests.
"I'm so confused by [specific homework problem/concept]. Could you explain it to me?"
Asking for help is a classic and effective method. It makes him feel knowledgeable and helpful.