How to Talk to Boys at School
#2 Conversation Options
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"That [book/movie/song] you mentioned earlier sounds cool. What else are you into?"
Referring back to something he mentioned shows you were listening and want to learn more about his interests.
"That [teacher/class] is so [hard/interesting], right? What do you think of it?"
This is a low-risk way to connect over a shared, immediate experience. It invites him to share his opinion.
"What's your favorite thing about being at this school?"
A broad, positive question that allows him to talk about his experiences and interests within the school setting.
"You're really good at [sport/subject/game]! How long have you been doing that?"
A genuine compliment on something he's skilled at. It shows you've noticed his abilities and gives him a chance to talk about his passion.
"Do you have any tips for [getting good at this subject/improving in this sport]?"
Asking for advice implies you value his knowledge and gives him a chance to share expertise.
"What's the funniest thing that's happened to you at school this year?"
A lighthearted question that encourages him to share an amusing anecdote, making the conversation fun.
"I saw you [playing basketball/at the club meeting]. How did that go?"
Showing you notice his activities outside of class is a good way to demonstrate interest in his life.
"What are you planning to do after high school? Any exciting plans?"
This is a bigger question, but can lead to a deeper conversation about his aspirations and future.
"I'm so confused by [specific homework problem/concept]. Could you explain it to me?"
Asking for help is a classic and effective method. It makes him feel knowledgeable and helpful.
"I'm trying to decide what [elective/club] to join next year. Do you have any recommendations?"
Seeking his opinion on school choices can lead to a discussion about shared interests or new possibilities.
"Are you going to the [school event/game] this [weekend/Friday]?"
Talking about upcoming social events creates a potential shared experience and an opportunity to meet up again.
"You seem to know a lot about [topic]. Have you always been interested in that?"
Acknowledging his knowledge in a specific area can be flattering and open up a discussion about his hobbies.